It's n.o.t about you

hi everyone! have just read an article posted on facebook. here's the link http://sethadamsmith.com/2013/11/02/marriage-isnt-for-you/ . my first reaction when i read the title, i was like, 'oh yeah! i am gonna telling my mom about this (well, she has been into depression for quite some time because of her still-not-in-a-realtionship daughters. hahahahaha)'. however, i am more than agree with the article. hmmm.. a sentence that concludes everything, Life is NOT about YOU, it's about OTHERS. 

btw I am extremely surprised by my friend's ability to see through people. hmmm.... well, we do not talk often. yet, he always knows what i am thinking and what my problem is before i speak up. he should study psychology despite civil eng. ! i never tell details to him, yet he succeed to figure it out. the same goes yesterday. he was asking me about how my life's going and try to share a movie link. well, few minutes later, he knew what's going on with me here (and the details! he's very proud to find it himself cause i refuse to tell him). 'see, memang dari dulu saya yang paling mengerti u' he said to me. not rarely, i was always end up by 'wowww, how could he know what i am ogoing to write'. hahahaha. sounds like he is chatting with himself huh? lol. but it's not over yet guys, not get misunderstood. he could see through all people (not only cl)! sounds horrible huh?? hahahaha. salute! that's what i could say. besides that, i am grateful that he ask me to share my story. i know i am not alone, right?? he often speaks in a casual way (like boy to boy conversation. hahahaha. he ever told me that i aint a girl), but he gives me advice that i need, criticizes me, tells me that BLACK colour does exist in life (not just white). he doesnt talk in a nice way just like how a boy supposed to do. lolll. anyway thanks for being great advicer and friend!

it's 8 nov in sydney now. happy graduation dearest girlfriend Rinie Tan! wish you a 'soon' great working life!

sabbe satta bhavantu sukkhitata. saddhu saddhu saddhu