70% and 30%

hi! so, how is your beginning of the week guys? hope it will be a great week for all of us. sooo, firstly, jiayou for Suahu and Kodok who are facing their exams. Fightiiinngggg!!! fyi, suahu is going to graduate soon. huwaaa.. she is the fastest among us (rinie, lay, rose, and I). hope everything is going well, suahu. *hugsss

and i dont know why, but i feel so grateful nowadays. i am so thankful. Thanks a lot to everyone who has supported me and still supporting me till now. big big thank you. i do admit, that i am easily get sad, but i also easily get excited (even though such a small thing happens). hehe.. do you know how to live a happy life guys? as ajahn brahm's said: lower your expectation, then you will always be happy. i do agree with that. try not to expect to high. the highest point is 70%. never expect higher than 70%, or else you will get disappointment and easily hurt. but, in my opinion, it doesnt mean that you should give your best just up to 70%. less expect does NOT mean less trying. give our best to 100%, but expect to max 70% for the result. the same case to your son/daughter, collegues, friends, boyfriend/girlfriend. never expect from them too much. because of what? we ourselves couldnt be such a perfect one. so, how about the rest 30%? ajahn brahm told us that 30% must be the failure of what we have done. every succeed person expect up to 70 and fail to do something up to the max 30. there is no success without failure, remember?

so, the summary: keep trying, expect less, then you will live a happy life. =D

yes, i do eat and pray every day, but one more thing! i do not love every day! hmmm... okay, i'll love you everyday! =)

so friends, let's eat, pray, and love. that means a life! hehehe

sabbe satta bhavantu sukkhitata. saddhu saddhu saddhu